Hypnosis FAQs

What is "Hypnosis?"

A natural, yet altered, state of mind where communication and responsiveness with the subconscious mind is present. Hypnosis is a natural state of mind with special identifying characteristics: 1. An extraordinary quality of relaxation. 2. An emotionalized desire to satisfy the suggested behavior: The person feels like doing what the hypnotist suggests, provided that what is suggested does not generate conflict with his belief system. 3. The organism becomes self-regulating and produces normalization of the central nervous system. 4. Heightened and selective sensitivity to stimuli perceived by the five senses and four basic perceptions. 5. Immediate softening of psychic defenses.



Can I be "Hypnotized?"

If your IQ is 70 or higher, you know and want what you’re being hypnotized for, you feel safe wherever you are being hypnotized, and you trust your hypnotist…you can be hypnotized. Many people think they can’t be hypnotized because they went to a hypnosis stage show and saw people doing things out of their comfort zone and they think “no way would I ever do that!” The purpose of stage hypnosis is to entertain others. The purpose of our sessions will be to get you to the next best version of yourself.



Will I get stuck in "Hypnosis?"

No. Even those in the deepest trance will come back to their full and regular waking consciousness when they get hungry or have to use the restroom.



Will "Hypnosis" make me lose control so I tell you my secrets and bank passwords?

No. I can’t make anyone do something in trance that goes against their moral code. However, you'll be surprised at what some people are willing to do!



How long will my session be?

Erotic Hypnosis sessions are generally 1 hours. Erotic Hypnotherapy sessions are generally 1.5 - 2 hours. Erotic Hypnosis sessions are shorter because they generally focus on fantasy fullfillment or basic relaxation and suggestions. Erotic Hypnotherapy sessions take longer because we are working on transforming past experiences and belief systems into postive self-empowerment and confidence building.



How long will my suggestions last?

This largely depends on the goal of the session, but suggestions can be set to last for a day or a lifetime, or set to activate when certain things happen or certain words are said. If we are working towards permanent life changes, then I work so those suggestions last a lifetime. If a suggestion is not working or stops working, it’s usually because the client has an unconscious block. Subsequent hypnosis sessions will help uncover those. In my experience, clients with multiple past traumas that they keep remembering or reliving have more issues to work through and will require more sessions. Hypnosis and Hypnotherapy is not like surgery - one session and you’re instantly better. It took your mind YEARS to make the neural pathways it’s already made. Making new ones can take time. However, I’ve found Hypnosis and Hypnotherapy to be much more effective and faster in making permanent life changes than traditional mental health counseling. A classic hypnosis study found that, on average, patients required just six hypnotherapy sessions with a 93-percent recovery rate. Psychoanalysis, on the other hand, required roughly 600 sessions with just a 38-percent recovery rate. Hmmm…how much money do you have? I’ve had several clients visit a mental health practitioner for 10-15+ years and within as few as 2 sessions working with me…they are off their medication and happier than they’ve been in years.



How much are sessions? How many sessions will I need?

My current rates are posted at www.wingshypnosis.com/book-online. Because Hypnosis and Hypnotherapy are highly customized, personal services, I can’t really tell you how many sessions until I know what it is you wish to accomplish and how attainable that goal is. Consider scheduling a consultation so I can get the full scope of what you wish to accomplish. When you arrive for your first session, we can start right in on the changes you want!



How/When do I pay for my sessions?

Hypnosis and hypnotherapy sessions are paid in full prior to the start of each session. No shows and last minute cancellations are subject to a $35 rescheduling fee. I accept cash and payments via the CASH app, VENMO, ZELLE, PayPal, and all major credit cards through Square.



Do you do online hypnosis sessions?

Yes. I do sessions via Zoom.



Do you do sessions in the evening or on weekends?

If you would like time outside my regularly scheduled hours, you must schedule that at least one week in advance. Weekend appointments are available, must be booked at least one week in advance, must be paid in full at the time of booking, and are 2x my going rate for an individual session.



Do you video or audio record sessions?

All sessions, office or online are digitally recorded. This is for 3 reasons: 1) clients may want to refer back to their session for something they missed or forgot 2) it helps jog my memory as to what our session was about 3) it protects myself from persons who may accuse me of illegal acts or ethical violations.
 Audio recordings are saved in a Box.com account and shared only with the client should they desire access. Files are saved with your identity protection in mind. At this writing, recordings are kept indefinitely for the reasons stated above. 
If you do an in-person, please know there is a motion activated video security camera in my office.



I've found WingsHypnosis.com while doing a google search, and it looks like WingsHypnosis.com and MissHypnoTits.com are the same person.  What's the deal?

Wings Hypnosis.com and MissHypnoTits.com are both owned and operated by Wings Hypnosis, LLC. WingsHypnosis.com is a "vanilla friendly" site that focuses more traditional and "vanilla" hypnosis, while MissHypnoTits.com allows me to better explain what I do to sexually adventurous adults looking to make a positive change in their life. All bookings and payments will go through Wings Hypnosis.



Why the name "Wings Hypnosis?"

My goal is to inspire others and give them the mental tools they need to "rise above." By giving other people their wings, they too can rise above.



What is Erotic Hypnosis?

Erotic Hypnosis is using hypnotic suggestions to help a client achieve a particular sexual objective.



What is Erotic Hypnotherapy?

Erotic Hypnotherapy is using hypnotherapy modalities to transform sexual behaviors that cause guilt and shame into into confidence and self empowerment. It can also be used to help tame "out of control" sexual behaviors that are causing interference in life.



Do you hypnotize people for normal things too?

Yes, and often times I'm able to integrate more traditional hypnosis requests with Erotic Hypnosis and Hypnotherapy sessions. Often times erratic, erotic behaviors are an expressions of something else going on inside. Other things I hypnotize clients for include, but aren't limited to... 
Build self esteem and self confidence
 Smoking cessation
 Overcome fears and phobias
 Weight loss or weight gain
 Stress management
 Pain management
 Enhance Relationships
 Achieve Goals Please visit https://www.wingshypnosis.com for more information.



Are the any kinds of sessions you don't do?

Yes. I do not do sessions where I am your submissive. I do not do sessions where I hypnotize you to fall in love with me. I do not do free sessions in exchange for "service." 
I do not do sessions that involve sexual fantasy role play with children and animals. I do not do sessions where I hypnotize people to give me or others money on command, aka financial domination. I do not do sessions where you are programmed to completely give up your control and decision making abilities to myself or another person. I do not do sessions that involve violence, mutilation, temporary or permanent physical damage to yourself and others. 
I do not hypnotize owned slaves or submissives in a D/s for anything BDSM related unless I have written consent from their Owner. I practice SSC (Safe, Sane and Consensual), RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) and PRICK (Personal Responsibility, Informed, Consensual Kink). If you have any questions about a specific goal, please schedule a consultation. I do not do consultations via email. 
I reserve the right to refuse any session request for any reason.



Can I be naked for my Erotic Hypnosis session?

Absolutely not. I am a Certified Hypnosis and Hypnotherapy Professional that specializes in Erotic Hypnosis and Erotic Hypnotherapy. Having "naked clients" puts me in a difficult position with my significant other, it jepoardizes my standing with several hypnosis associations, not to mention it violates local, county, and state ordinances. Then there's dealing with your DNA...in a pandemic. No thank you.



Why the name MissHypnoTits?

MissHypnoTits is the name I used for my fetlife.com profile. So many people loved the name, I decided to make it a website where I could better explain Erotic Hypnosis and Erotic Hypnotherapy without "scaring" potential vanilla clients.



I was hypnotized before, but I don't think I was hypnotized. I was aware of what was going on the whole time and it didn't do anything for me.

Thanks to misrepresentation in the media and movies, people "expect" Hypnosis to be mind control or forced into doing things. With Hypnosis, you're very much aware of what's going on, and very much in control of the whole process. If your previous hypnosis session(s) didn't work, it is usually because of one or more of these factors: you didn't know or want what you were being hypnotized for, you didn't trust your hypnotist, you didn't feel safe being hypnotized, you had unreasonable explanations of what hypnosis is. Clients who choose to work with me find themselves in a partnership. We work together the whole way so you know EXACTLY what you're being hypnotized for. There is no mind control, you remember the entire session (and there's a recording for the few who don't remember their session), and you are given tools that you can use to recreate your experience and intensify your results long after the session is over.



Why do you charge for a consultation?

When I did free consultations, people would schedule them and then not show, screwing up my schedule for not only myself but my paid clients. Since I started charging? Zero cancellations! Should you choose to work with me, I do apply your consultation fee towards your first session or package of sessions.



What are some examples of erotic hypnosis / erotic hypnotherapy sessions you've done for other people?

I hypnotized a man in his 60s who had gotten into swinging with his wife to be able to "perform" with other women. He had been monogamous for many years, and was nervoud being with other women. I helped a transgender embrace her sexuality, so she could finally come out to family and friends who knew her when he was male. I worked with a secretly bi-sexual man who really wanted to attend and enjoy gay leather events, but wouldn't go because of the shame and guilt he experienced after attending. I worked with an adult baby diaper lover who really wanted to find a mommy and lose weight. I created erotic hypnosis fantasy scenarios for a gentleman who loves wearing women's lingerie. I hypnotized an elderly gentleman who had gotten into swinging to be able to "perform" with a condom. Married to the same woman for over 30 years, he never needed one before. While at a swinger conference, I hypnotized a terminally ill woman to find peace with her body and sexuality in spite of her illness. At the beginning of the session, she was covered up in baggy clothing and crying about how skinny her body was from the disease. By that evening she had her body professionally body painted and was walking around naked with a huge smile on her face. These are just a few examples!